Friday, 6 December 2013
Advice Corner: I am Engaged But The Man I Really Love Is Back And Wants Me.
James is my first love, I am not his but I felt like it, he
was evidently in love with me and all over me at the
same time. We dated for approximately four years
before he vanished. I just didn't hear from him, his
mobile number never went through again, he had moved
and i didn't smell him for good two years. Before the
count of two years, I moved on, I met people, I made
new friends and an exceptional man; Gregory.
I started dating Gregory shortly after James disappeared
from my life. Gregory is the best man any woman could
ask for, my family likes him, we have the same religious
belief (unlike James, who after all still accepted me that
way), he is extremely caring and generous to me. Of
recent he established a business of over two million
naira for me and he proposed , due to the love and
gratitude I have for him, I accepted and we are both
looking forward to being together forever. He has started
his own wedding plans already!
Less than 48 hours ago, I got a call from an unknown
number and it was James. He told me he has been out of
the country and he's back to settle down with me. He
sounded just like the adorable man that was very much
in love with me. I asked him why he didn't reach out to
me for that long and he said my friend never gave him
my right mobile no.
I still love him, despite the hurt I felt when he vanished, I
don't know what to do. James has been my better-half
since I began to know what they call love, I never for
once thought we would do without each other, yes we
didn't see or hear from each other for over 20 months
but I feel miserable right now. I don't know what to do! If
I let go of James again, I doubt if I will ever be happy
and I won't forgive myself if I leave Gregory after all he
has done for me and my family!
Please I am loosing my mind! I need help! I need
opinions! I might just go crazy!